Becoming the Self

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Attachment/People-Pleasing

Discover how your early experiences shape the way you connect, love, and seek closeness in relationships, while learning to recognize the patterns that lead you to prioritize others at the expense of your own needs and boundaries.

Attachment Theory

Discover how your early experiences shape the way you connect, love, and seek closeness in relationships.

People-Pleasing

Learn to recognize the patterns that keep you prioritizing others at the expense of your own needs and boundaries.
Becoming the Self
Discover the person you are beneath the patterns you’ve outgrown and finally start living a life that feels like yours.
Becoming the Self

Hi, I'm Mai

Becoming the Self is my most personal project. It was born from the healing I’ve been doing since 2017. Through this work, I’ve come to understand how my upbringing and limiting beliefs shaped who I became. Now, I share the lessons and tools I’ve gathered to help you make sense of your own patterns and meet you wherever you are on this path.

Why this matters

Most of us move through life unaware of the invisible scripts running in the background. Scripts written in childhood. Scripts shaped by our earliest experiences of love, safety, and connection.

Insightful / Psychological

These patterns aren't flaws—they're adaptations. Strategies your younger self developed to survive and stay connected. But what once protected you may now be holding you back.

FEEL BALANCED

How can we help you

Founded on principles of holistic well-being, we strive to support mind, body, and spirit through a personalized approach.

Acupuncture

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Meditation Theraphy

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Holistic Nutrition

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Yoga

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Herbal Medicine

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Massage Therapy

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Upcoming Activities
& Events

2 december

Holistic Nutrition Guide

fee: $90

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10 december

Yoga with Bryan Smith

fee: $190

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22 december

Aromatheraphy course

fee: $190

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This space was created for honest conversations and meaningful connection. While I may not be able to respond to every message immediately, please know that your words are read with care and appreciation.