Becoming the Self

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Attachment Theory

Discover how your early experiences shape the way you connect, love, and seek closeness in relationships.

People-Pleasing

Learn to recognize the patterns that keep you prioritizing others at the expense of your own needs and boundaries.
Becoming the Self

With compassion, expertise, and a focus on your unique needs, we’re committed to helping you thrive—mind, body, and spirit. 

Becoming the Self

Hi, I'm Mai

I spent years wondering why my relationships felt so hard. Why I kept attracting the same patterns. Why I couldn’t seem to break free.

Then I discovered attachment theory, and everything changed. I finally understood that my struggles weren’t signs of brokenness—they were signs of adaptation. Survival strategies that had outlived their purpose.

Now I help others find that same clarity, one gentle step at a time.

Why this matters

Most of us move through life unaware of the invisible scripts running in the background. Scripts written in childhood. Scripts shaped by our earliest experiences of love, safety, and connection.

Insightful / Psychological

These patterns aren't flaws—they're adaptations. Strategies your younger self developed to survive and stay connected. But what once protected you may now be holding you back.

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How can we help you

Founded on principles of holistic well-being, we strive to support mind, body, and spirit through a personalized approach.

Acupuncture

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Meditation Theraphy

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Holistic Nutrition

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Yoga

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Herbal Medicine

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Massage Therapy

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Upcoming Activities
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2 december

Holistic Nutrition Guide

fee: $90

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10 december

Yoga with Bryan Smith

fee: $190

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22 december

Aromatheraphy course

fee: $190

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